In Islam How to Sleep with Your Wife? The Explanation You're Looking For

How to Sleep with Your Wife?

Hi! In this article I will explain one of the important things about which is specifically related to husband and wife. One important thing I mean is “in Islam how to sleep with your wife?”. As Muslims, we must understand that. That’s why I wrote this article. So, you have to read it to the end.

Specifically, there are some important things about “in Islam how to sleep with your wife?” which I will explain in this article. Some of the important things I mean are as follows:

Definition of Sleeping with Your Wife in Islam

In the first discussion about “in Islam how to sleep with your wife?” what I will explain now is the definition of “sleeping with wife in Islam”. I want you to understand that before you read the other explanations in this article. In addition, I also want you to understand the focus of the discussion in this article.

In general, what is meant by “how to sleep with your wife in Islam” is the right sleep with your wife according to Islamic teachings. But there are some conditions that must be understood by a Muslim when he sleeps with his wife, such as sleeping with his wife without clothes, sleeping with a wife who is menstruating, and so on. In the next explanation, I will explain these two things (sleeping with his wife without clothes and sleeping with his wife who is menstruating). So, keep reading this article.

That is the definition of “sleeping with your wife in Islam”. As Muslims, we must understand that.

Sleeping with Your Naked Wife in Islam

In the second discussion about “in Islam how to sleep with your wife?” What I will explain in this article is sleeping with my wife without clothes. I think we have understood the meaning of the phrase “sleeping with the wife without clothes in Islam”. I’m not going to explain that anymore now.

Specifically, “Does Islam allow a Muslim to sleep with his wife naked?”

Before I explain the answer to this question, I will quote the Quran and hadith that are specifically related to the focus of this discussion.

Sleeping with Your Naked Wife in Quran

As for the Quran about sleeping with a naked wife, what I mean is as follows:

وَالَّذِينَ هُمْ لِفُرُوجِهِمْ حَافِظُونَ . إِلَّا عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِمْ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُمْ فَإِنَّهُمْ غَيْرُ مَلُومِينَ

And the people who take care of his vital organs. Except for their wives or their female slaves: verily they are blameless in this. (Al-Mu’minun: 5-6).

Indeed, the Quranic verse above does not specifically describe sleeping with naked wife. But if we understand it, then we can conclude that it is the postulate of the topic we are discussing now.

Sleeping with Your Naked Wife in Hadith

As for the hadith about sleeping with naked wife, what I mean is as follows:

قَالَ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : اِحْفَظْ عَوْرَتَكَ إِلاَّ مِنْ زَوْجَتِكَ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ يَمِينُكَ

Allah’s Messenger (Prophet Muhammad) sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, “Take care of your vital organs except for your wife or your female slaves.”

Muslim Sleeping with His Naked Wife Undressed: Is It Permissible?

Now, specifically, I will explain the answer to the question “does Islam allow a Muslim to sleep with his naked wife?”.

If we understand the Quran and the hadith that I have written above, then we can conclude that Islam allows a Muslim to sleep with his wife naked. In the Quran and the hadith it is explained that Muslims must guard their vital organs except for their wives and their female slaves. I think you have understood the meaning of this sentence.

Sleeping with Menstruating Wife

In the third discussion about “in Islam how to sleep with your wife?” what I will explain here is sleeping with a wife who is menstruating. I want you to understand that because there are some things a husband can do and he can’t do when his wife is menstruating.

Specifically, we can find an explanation of what a husband can do and what he cannot do when his wife is menstruating in the two hadiths below:

عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ ؛ كَانَ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَأْمُرُنِيْ فَأَتَّزِرُ ، فَيُبَاشِرُنِيْ وَأَنَا حَائِضٌ . مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ

From Aisha radliyallaahu anhaa, she said,” The Messenger of Allah (Prophet Muhammad) sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam told me to wear a sarong. He then touched me and I was menstruating. “The hadith was narrated by al-Bukhari and Muslim.

عَنْ أَنَسٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ، أَنَّ الْيَهُوْدَ كَانَتْ إِذَا حَاضَتْ الْمَرْأَةُ لَمْ يُؤَاكِلُوْهَا ، فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : اِصْنَعُوْا كُلَّ شَيْءٍ إِلَّا النِّكَاحَ . رَوَاهُ مُسْلِمٌ

From Anas radliyallaahu anhu, that if someone’s wife from the Yahud tribe is menstruating, then she will not eat with her. The Prophet (Muhammad) sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam said,” Do everything except sex. “The hadith is narrated by Muslim.

If we understand the two hadiths above, then we can conclude that a Muslim may sleep with his menstruating wife and do anything with her except sex. As Muslims, we must understand that.

That’s a brief explanation of “in Islam how to sleep with your wife?”. Do you understand? If you want to ask, please ask.

I think that’s enough for this article. May be useful. Amen.

See you again in the next article!